Table Talk | June 7-8
Key Takeaways:
1. Not everyone is called to the lifelong covenant of marriage.
2. Some choose singleness and celibacy to live missionally.
3. Missional singleness enables undivided devotion to Jesus.
Discussion Questions:
1. How does our culture’s view of sexuality differ from Jesus’ teachings? Why might Jesus’ perspective be challenging for some people?
2. Pastor Todd mentioned three categories of “eunuchs” Jesus describes. How do these categories challenge our understanding of singleness and celibacy?
3. How can the church better support those who choose celibacy, whether due to singleness or same-sex attraction?
4. Reflect on the quote: “The gospel is better than anything we are tempted to sinfully enjoy.” How does this apply to our lives, regardless of our relationship status or sexual orientation?
5. How can married individuals support and encourage those who are single in the church community?
6. Discuss the concept of “undivided devotion to the Lord” as mentioned in 1 Corinthians 7. What are the potential benefits and challenges of this lifestyle?
Practical Applications:
1. Examine your own beliefs about sexuality and marriage. Are there areas where you need to align more closely with biblical teaching?
2. If you’re single, consider how you can use this season to grow in devotion to Jesus and serve others missionally.
3. For all group members: Commit to creating a welcoming and supportive environment in your church for those who are single or celibate.
4. Reflect on how you can engage with people in your “oikos” (sphere of influence) who may have different views on sexuality while still demonstrating Christ’s love.
5. If you struggle with sexual desires that don’t align with God’s design, consider finding a trusted Christian mentor or counselor to talk with.
Closing Prayer:
Thank God for His design for sexuality and relationships. Ask for wisdom and strength to live according to His will, whether married or single. Pray for those in the church who may be struggling with these issues.